“If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do well matters very much.” ~ Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis
You would find them in the soda shops and movie houses any time of the day or night. Sitting on the bar stool or stuffed into a booth. Sipping on a milkshake or devouring a greasy cheeseburger with all the trimmings. They all looked the same; they wanted to fit in just like kids today. Decked out in saddle shoes and penny loafers, cuffed blue jeans, Shetland sweaters, poodle skirts, and I.D. bracelets. Elvis and Patsy Cline swooned on the juke box and the Korean War and McCarthyism were all but forgotten for the 1950’s teenager.
Sandy Jo McCammon might be considered your typical teenager except that she was an only child. And she was probably spoiled. Her mother had lost her first child when she was just three weeks old and never really recovered from the loss. So, both parents especially doted on Sandy. With hard-working, middle class parents, she never really wanted for anything.
But what she dreamed of was to be a dancer! Her cousin Jennifer had the same aspirations. They surely went to the movies every Saturday matinee and dreamed of being the next Ann Miller or Ginger Rogers. They took lessons together and learned to tap dance. They never made it to Broadway but they sure looked great in their costumes.
Sandy and Buddy set up housekeeping at the close of the 50’s and welcomed the 60’s, not realizing the impact those next ten years would forever have on their lives. For from 1959 to 1970 they would not only have four adorable children (yep, one of them was me!), but would even see the youngest off to kindergarten by the time the seventies rolled around. You better believe they were busy!
Sandy had several occupations besides Mother, and I have no idea how she had time for any of them. She cleaned houses and even worked in a factory for a very short time, but I don’t think she was fond of that one; she never liked to sit still for very long. She was a hostess at the Executive Inn, along with her mother, where she met Lucille Ball’s overbearing boss Gale Gordon, a.k.a., “Mr. Mooney”, one evening at a banquet!
One of her favorite jobs though, I believe, was her beloved school bus. Her father-in-law had driven for many years and encouraged her to get her license. It was just perfect for her and the hours were great.
After the kids were all grown and out of the house Mom worked for several years for Wicks and Sticks, a candle company, in a shopping mall in Indianapolis. She was managing the store one day when Billy Ray Cyrus, of “Achy Breaky Heart” fame, came for an appearance to sign his newest CD at the mall. He was set up right outside of her store and unfortunately for Billy Ray, Miley had not made him famous yet, and there was hardly even a crowd gathered! Mother felt so badly for him that she finally went out and started talking to him and kept a conversation for about half an hour. She should have stayed longer and invited him for dinner until he felt comfortable enough to call her Aunt Sandy.
In between all of these occupations, Sandy had time to be called Grandma, or Mamaw Sandy. She became a grandmother at a very young age with my very own Kyle Douglas more than 37 years ago and eight more have come along since then and she is just as proud of every one. We can’t leave out her little Bella and Norah, who have adopted her as Grandma, so officially there are eleven! Included in the pack are a two granddaughters-in-law and one grandson-in-law. Now, as time marches on, they are rapidly gaining great grandchildren, with three little great granddaughters and one on the way!
One of the greatest privileges of my life was being with my mother when she gave her heart to the Lord. I was twelve years old and I have no idea why I decided to tag along with Mom and her friend Jackie. My Dad was brought up in the church, but my mother was not, and they had not served God since they had been married. Mom was a fairly heavy smoker of unfiltered Winstons.
It was a cold January night when we arrived at the revival meeting. Although it has been 45 years ago now, I can still remember my mother standing there with tears streaming down her face gripping the back of the pew at the close of the preacher’s sermon. She didn’t wait for an invitation; she was already heading down that aisle to give her heart to God.
My Dad was surely surprised when she came home with the news but the next week we were all in church as a family and they have served God together the last 45 years.
The most wonderful miracle was when Mom came home that night from that revival meeting. She went straight to the drawer in the kitchen where she kept those Winston cigarettes and threw them all in the wastebasket. She never had another cigarette again and she never had withdrawal symptoms! She was instantly delivered when she was filled with the Holy Spirit! God still performs miracles today!
It is fun to reminisce about your mother’s life but I honor her today for taking that step of faith so long ago for ALL of our family. I often wonder how different our lives would have been had she not answered that call that night. Would any of us be serving God? Would our marriages be in shambles? How about our children? What direction would their lives have taken? None of them have ever been in trouble with the law. Neither have my brothers or sisters children. It could have been so different.
But because of my mother, all of her children and all of her grandchildren are serving God today! What a testimony and what a blessing! No, she is not a celebrity, but she will leave a legacy that far surpasses what the rich and famous will ever experience.
Thank you, Mom. We have much to be thankful for today because of you. Happy Mother’s Day!
Happy Mother’s Day to all of our Mothers visiting Hope in the Healing today. May God richly bless you with good health and much happiness this year. Without God there is no hope, but WITH HIM there is Life, Love, Joy and Peace that will carry you through any circumstance.
